I am the first to admit that in the past I was always attracted to the bad boy. After more than a year of talking to other women, married or single, it seems I was not alone!
It is obviously the reason "Fifty shade of Grey" made it to the bestseller list.
The question we should be asking is, why?
The answer is simple. It’s the anticipation and excitement that we feel every time we see that person. We live on the edge at all times which heightens our adrenaline, often mistaking that for love. What we fail to see is, falling off the cliff in most cases is inevitable.
So, is it worth the heartache?
My advice? If you are with someone that makes your head spin you are probably going to wind up dizzy and go for a tumble eventually. If you feel compelled to make the journey, make sure you have honed your survival skills. Chances are you are going to be coming out from the "wild"erness alone. Experience the adventure for what it is and enjoy the views from the mountaintop while you are there.
Mantra: The bad boys we LOVE to leave.